The Relational Grammar of Social Life

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Completed

How do we know how, when and where to relate to others?

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About the project

Humans are an ultra-social species. All children must learn and everybody must track which people are friends or foes, peers, leaders or subordinates; and what kinds of likely and normative actions this signifies: When to share (or not), take turns (or no t), take directions and follow orders (or not). These social rules are rarely discussed explicitly in, and before, everyday social interactions. Yet we usually apply them seamlessly, even when generating new social relationships. How do we know how, when and where to relate to others?

Objectives

The present research program investigates whether we co-ordinate social life using a relational grammar that consists of

1) universal, core kinds of relations (communion, hierarchy, and equality, represented image-schema tically as overlap, pyramidal, and level structures);

2) innate or very early-developing attention to / understanding of these kinds of relations and their cues;

3) a proto-syntax for interpreting their (recursive) combinatorics (e.g. the difference between communal hierarchy and hierarchical communion).

The research program will also investigate

4) the neural implementation in the brain of these relational core concepts and motives.

Finally,

5) a 3-wave, fully-funded panel (N=2000) will test how basic relational motives and perceptions relate to social and political attitudes across 4 years, including democratic challenges such as xenophobia and support for terror, as well as how psychological and physiological health relates to elementary relat ional perceptions and motives, matching this data to very high-quality, Danish registry records.

Participants

  • Picture of Lotte Thomsen
    Lotte Thomsen University of Oslo
  • Claire Prendergast University of Oslo
  • Picture of Siri  Leknes
    Siri Leknes University of Oslo
  • Morten Kringelbach
  • Alan Page Fiske
  • Susan Carey
  • Jim Sidanius

Publications

  • Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer; Vassend, Olav; Røysamb, Espen & Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem [Show all 9 contributors for this article] (2024). The genetic underpinnings of right-wing authoritarianism and social dominance orientation explain political attitudes beyond Big Five personality. Journal of Personality. ISSN 0022-3506. 92(6), p. 1744–1758. doi: 10.1111/jopy.12921. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Vassend, Olav Mandt; Røysamb, Espen; Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem & Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer [Show all 10 contributors for this article] (2024). Attachment and Political Personality are Heritable and Distinct Systems, and Both Share Genetics with Interpersonal Trust and Altruism. Behavior Genetics. ISSN 0001-8244. 54, p. 321–332. doi: 10.1007/s10519-024-10185-y. Full text in Research Archive
  • Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem; Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer; Røysamb, Espen & Vassend, Olav Mandt [Show all 8 contributors for this article] (2022). Justice sensitivity is undergirded by separate heritable motivations to be morally principled and opportunistic. Scientific Reports. 12. doi: 10.1038/s41598-022-09253-2. Full text in Research Archive
  • Fonn, Erik Kjos; Zahl, Joakim Haugane & Thomsen, Lotte (2022). The boss is not always right: Norwegian preschoolers do not selectively endorse the testimony of a novel dominant agent. Child Development. ISSN 0009-3920. 93(3), p. 831–844. doi: 10.1111/cdev.13722. Full text in Research Archive
  • Blomster, Johanna Katarina; Thomsen, Lotte & Seibt, Beate (2020). Moved by Observing the Love of Others: Kama Muta Evoked Through Media Fosters Humanization of Out-Groups. Frontiers in Psychology. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2020.01240. Full text in Research Archive
  • Prendergast, Claire Nicole (2019). Infant Understanding of Different Forms of Social Exclusion. Brain Sciences. 9(9). doi: 10.3390/brainsci9090227. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Social Dominance Orientation(SDO). In K., Shackelford Todd & Weekes-Shackelford, Viviana A. (Ed.), Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science. Springer. ISSN 9783319169996. doi: 10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6. Full text in Research Archive
  • Prendergast, Claire Nicole; Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem; Ikonomeas, Alexander Gustav Fredriksen; Brun, Aurora; Huth, Håkon & Bredesen, Marit (2019). The Norwegian version of the five factor narcissism inventory for vulnerable narcissism and the grandiose narcissism subscale of indifference: Psychometric properties of the long‐ and short‐form versions. Scandinavian Journal of Psychology. ISSN 0036-5564. 60(5), p. 492–500. doi: 10.1111/sjop.12569. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Thomsen, Lotte & Dovidio, John F. (2019). Divided Loyalties: Perceptions of Disloyalty Underpin Bias Toward Dually-Identified Minority-Group Members. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. ISSN 0022-3514. 117(4), p. 807–838. doi: 10.1037/pspi0000168. Full text in Research Archive
  • Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Egalitarianism: Psychological and socio-ecological foundations. Current Opinion in Psychology. ISSN 2352-250X. 32, p. 146–152. doi: 10.1016/j.copsyc.2019.08.014. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Vassend, Olav; Røysamb, Espen; Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem & Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer [Show all 8 contributors for this article] (2019). Correlations between social dominance orientation and political attitudes reflect common genetic underpinnings. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America (PNAS). ISSN 0027-8424. 116(36), p. 17741–17746. doi: 10.1073/pnas.1818711116. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte (2019). The developmental origins of social hierarchy: how infants and young children mentally represent and respond to power and status. Current Opinion in Psychology. ISSN 2352-250X. 33, p. 201–208. doi: 10.1016/j.copsyc.2019.07.044. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Dovidio, John F. & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Fusion with political leaders predicts willingness to persecute immigrants and political opponents. Nature Human Behaviour. p. 1–13. doi: 10.1038/s41562-019-0708-1. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Kimel, Sasha; Shani, Maor; Alayan, Ramzi & Thomsen, Lotte (2018). Can Abraham bring peace? The relationship between acknowledging shared religious roots and intergroup conflict. Psychology of Religion and Spirituality. ISSN 1941-1022. 11(4), p. 417–432. doi: 10.1037/rel0000192. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Boos, Beverly Karen; Kimel, Sasha; Obaidi, Milan; Shani, Maor & Thomsen, Lotte (2018). Engaging in extreme activism in support of others’ political struggles: The role of politically motivated fusion with out-groups. PLOS ONE. 13(1). doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0190639. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte & Fiske, Alan P. (2018). Communal Sharing/Identity Fusion Does Not Require Reflection on Episodic Memory of Shared Experience, or Trauma - and Usually Generates Kindness. Behavioral and Brain Sciences. ISSN 0140-525X. doi: 10.1017/s0140525x18001784. Full text in Research Archive
  • Obaidi, Milan; Bergh, Robin; Sidanius, Jim & Thomsen, Lotte (2018). The Mistreatment of My People: Victimization by Proxy and Behavioral Intentions to Commit Violence Among Muslims in Denmark. Political Psychology. ISSN 0162-895X. 39(3), p. 577–593. doi: 10.1111/pops.12435. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte & Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer (2018). A theory of how evolved psychology underpins attitudes towards societal economics must go beyond exchanges and averages. Behavioral and Brain Sciences. ISSN 0140-525X. doi: 10.1017/s0140525x18000535. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomas, Ashley J.; Thomsen, Lotte; Lukowski, Angela F.; Abramyan, Meline & Sarnecka, Barbara W. (2018). Toddlers prefer those who win but not when they win by force. Nature Human Behaviour. 2(9), p. 662–669. doi: 10.1038/s41562-018-0415-3. Full text in Research Archive
  • Zickfeld, Janis Heinrich; Kunst, Jonas R. & Hohle, Sigrid Møyner (2018). Too sweet to eat: Exploring the effects of cuteness on meat consumption. Appetite. ISSN 0195-6663. 120, p. 181–195. doi: 10.1016/j.appet.2017.08.038. Full text in Research Archive
  • Obaidi, Milan; Kunst, Jonas R.; Kteily, Nour; Thomsen, Lotte & Sidanius, Jim (2018). Living Under Threat: Mutual Threat Perception Drives Anti-Muslim and Anti-Western Hostility in the Age of Terrorism. European Journal of Social Psychology. ISSN 0046-2772. 48(5), p. 567–584. doi: 10.1002/ejsp.2362. Full text in Research Archive
  • Obaidi, Milan; Thomsen, Lotte & Bergh, Robin (2018). "They Think We Are a Threat to Their Culture”: Meta-Cultural Threat Fuels Willingness and Endorsement of Extremist Violence against the Cultural Outgroup. International Journal of Conflict and Violence. 12. doi: 10.4119/UNIBI/IJCV.647. Full text in Research Archive
  • Eikemo, Marie Helene; Biele, Guido; Willoch, Frode; Thomsen, Lotte & Leknes, Siri (2017). Opioid modulation of value-based decision-making in healthy humans. Neuropsychopharmacology. ISSN 0893-133X. 42(9), p. 1833–1840. doi: 10.1038/npp.2017.58. Full text in Research Archive
  • Haugen, Ingvild & Kunst, Jonas R. (2017). A two-way process? A qualitative and quantitative investigation of majority members’ acculturation. International Journal of Intercultural Relations. ISSN 0147-1767. 60, p. 67–82. doi: 10.1016/j.ijintrel.2017.07.004. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Ronald, Fischer; Sidanius, Jim & Thomsen, Lotte (2017). Preferences for group dominance track and mediate the effects of macro-level social inequality and violence across societies. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America (PNAS). ISSN 0027-8424. 114(21), p. 5407–5412. doi: 10.1073/pnas.1616572114. Full text in Research Archive
  • Johansson, Ole Jørgen & Kunst, Jonas R. (2017). Explaining prejudice toward the mentally ill: A test of sociopolitical, demographic, and socioeconomic factors. Journal of Applied Social Psychology. ISSN 0021-9029. 47(12), p. 682–695. doi: 10.1111/jasp.12483. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Kteily, Nour & Thomsen, Lotte (2017). “You Little Creep”: Evidence of Blatant Dehumanization of Short Groups. Social Psychological and Personality Science. ISSN 1948-5506. doi: 10.1177/1948550617740613. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kimel, Sasha; Huesmann, R.; Kunst, Jonas R. & Halperin, Eran (2016). Living in a Genetic World: How Learning About Interethnic Genetic Similarities and Differences Affects Peace and Conflict. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. ISSN 0146-1672. 42(5), p. 688–700. doi: 10.1177/0146167216642196. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R. & Hohle, Sigrid (2016). Meat eaters by dissociation: How we present, prepare and talk about meat increases willingness to eat meat by reducing empathy and disgust. Appetite. ISSN 0195-6663. 105, p. 758–774. doi: 10.1016/j.appet.2016.07.009. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Sadeghi, Talieh; Tahir, Hajra; Sam, David Lackland & Thomsen, Lotte (2016). The vicious circle of religious prejudice: Islamophobia makes the acculturation attitudes of majority and minority members clash. European Journal of Social Psychology. ISSN 0046-2772. 46(2), p. 249–259. doi: 10.1002/ejsp.2174. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Thomsen, Lotte; Sam, David Lackland & Berry, John W. (2015). “We Are in This Together”: Common Group Identity Predicts Majority Members’ Active Acculturation Efforts to Integrate Immigrants. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. ISSN 0146-1672. 41(10), p. 1438–1453. doi: 10.1177/0146167215599349. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R. & Thomsen, Lotte (2015). Prodigal Sons: Dual Abrahamic Categorization Mediates the Detrimental Effects of Religious Fundamentalism on Christian–Muslim Relations. The international journal for the psychology of religion. ISSN 1050-8619. 25(4), p. 293–306. doi: 10.1080/10508619.2014.937965. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte; Obaidi, Milan; Sheehy-Skeffington, Jennifer; Kteily, Nour & Sidanius, Jim (2014). Individual differences in relational motives interact with the political context to produce terrorism and terrorism-support. Behavioral and Brain Sciences. ISSN 0140-525X. 37(4), p. 377–378. doi: 10.1017/S0140525X13003579. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kunst, Jonas R.; Thomsen, Lotte & Sam, David Lackland (2014). Late Abrahamic reunion? Religious fundamentalism negatively predicts dual Abrahamic group categorization among Muslims and Christians. European Journal of Social Psychology. ISSN 0046-2772. 44(4), p. 337–348. doi: 10.1002/ejsp.2014. Full text in Research Archive
  • IJzerman, Hans; Karremans, Johan; Thomsen, Lotte & Schubert, Thomas (2013). Caring for sharing: How attachment styles modulate communal cues of physical warmth. Social Psychology. ISSN 1864-9335. 44, p. 160–166. doi: 10.1027/1864-9335/a000142. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte & Carey, Susan (2013). Core Cognition of Social Relations. In R., Banaji Mahzarin & Gelman, Susan A. (Ed.), Navigating the Social World: What infants, children and other species can teach us. Oxford University Press. ISSN 9780199890712. p. 17–23. doi: 10.1093/oso/9780199890712.003.0004. Full text in Research Archive

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  • Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Fonn, Erik Kjos; Eidjar, Oda & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Return the Favor: Preverbal Infants Represent Direct Reciprocity under Resource Scarcity, Full text in Research Archive
  • Fonn, Erik Kjos; Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Eidjar, Oda & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Early-developing Coalitional Preferences: Most male, but not female, pre-verbal infants and pre-schoolers prefer members of larger groups. Full text in Research Archive
  • Eidjar, Oda; Fonn, Erik Kjos; Zahl, Joakim Haugane & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Seeking out the majority: Preverbal expectations whether third parties will join the larger group. Full text in Research Archive
  • Fonn, Erik Kjos; Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Eidjar, Oda & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Early-developing Coalitional Preferences: Most male, but not female, pre-verbal infants and pre-schoolers prefer members of larger groups. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte; Fonn, Erik Kjos; Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Eidjar, Oda & Carey, Susan (2019). The structure of dominance: Preverbal infants map pyramidal position to social dominance. Full text in Research Archive
  • Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem; Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Røysamb, Espen; Vassend, Olav; Ystrøm, Eivind & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Moral opportunism: A unique genetic grounding associates lesser guilt from perpetrating injustice with greater sensitivity to being the victim of it. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kleppestø, Thomas Haarklau; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Vassend, Olav; Røysamb, Espen; Eftedal, Nikolai Haahjem & Kunst, Jonas R. [Show all 8 contributors for this article] (2019). Social dominance orientation has both genetic and unique environmental influences, but only genetic pleiotropy accounts for its correlation with political attitudes. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Innate Building-blocks of Political Psychology. Full text in Research Archive
  • Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Fonn, Erik Kjos; Eidjar, Oda & Thomsen, Lotte (2019). Return the Favor: Preverbal Infants Represent Direct Reciprocity under Resource Scarcity. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte; Zahl, Joakim Haugane; Fonn, Erik Kjos & Born, Victoria de (2018). Preschoolers use gratitude as a cue for future altruism. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte (2018). Innate Relational Representations and Motives. Full text in Research Archive
  • Kleppestø, Thomas H.; Czajkowski, Nikolai Olavi; Vassend, Olav; Røysamb, Espen; Kunst, Jonas R. & Thomsen, Lotte (2017). Preferring domination or egalitarianism: Genetic and environmental structure of Social Dominance Orientation. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomsen, Lotte (2017). Core Relational Cognition. Full text in Research Archive
  • Thomas, Ashley J.; Abramyan, Meline; Lukowski, Angela & Thomsen, Lotte (2016). Preferring the Mighty to the Meek: Toddlers Prefer Novel Dominant Agents. Full text in Research Archive

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Funding

Funded by The Research Council of Norway

The Research Council of Norway (FRIHUMSAM - Research project) 2014 - 2020.

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